Sure, you put your pants on every day one leg at a time, but there is something about you that just exudes mystery and inspires fear. Much like the X-Men (and Christian Grey,) you need to use your power for good.
When you walk into a room, you give off a vibe that people instantly respond to, like you're just breezing through while your private jet waits outside. Be aware of your impact and know your own strength.
We are also beautifully different from one another, too -- which means all of us have some unique value and flavor to add to a conversation or social setting. Here are some reasons why other people should not intimidate you: 1. The fear of others is generated within us, not by the person in question.
Jordan Belfort, the infamous Wolf of Wall Street, said in his memoir, "I'm insecure and humble, and I embarrass easily... If I had to choose between embarrassment and death, I'd choose death. I really found this to be true on three particular, separate occasions. The third occasion was when I volunteered my number to a cute stranger at a concert in Sydney in 2007.
'So what' is one of the greatest things you can ask yourself in this world. Nothing made the need for this article more clear than when someone recently told me that before they met me, they thought I was intimidating. Super friendly, short, always smiling, girl from a small town, me?
The opportunities are abundant when you stop allowing fear to get the better of you.
" Among that foursome, you're bound to find at least one well-known, or even legendary professional golfer. It's a pretty cool list and Dudurich even provides a reason for what makes each of these entries so intimidating.
But, if you take a closer look, you might just see that a particular, high-profile professional might actually be the last person you want to be paired with. Of course, if any of them are in your dream foursome, chances are they'd be a little nicer.
People who enjoy golf are often asked, "Who would make up your dream foursome? Mike Dudurich, a featured columnist for Bleacher Report.com, takes a look at 10 of the most intimidating players to be paired with in golf history.
Most of the people you meet like you or at least seem interested because you have made yourself an interesting person. You're unapproachable because most people are dramatically unremarkable, and you don't want to waste time getting caught in conversations with people who trap you with long stories and laugh at their own jokes.
You have cultivated — over time — a personality that draws people in like a good story at The Moth. People see that, and it becomes instantly clear how little you give a shit about them in comparison. I don't work for the Census Bureau, but these awful people make up 89 percent of the human population.
It's important for you to know that if you want to actually be friends with someone, you may have to make the first move.
This covers the spectrum from higher ups at work, love interests, people we don't know at parties, popular people from school or the office, even celebrities. Often people we look up to (or those who we just don't know who seem cool) can bring up feelings we harbor about ourselves that we are not good enough, smart enough, interesting enough. We are all made from the same source and the truth is -- and this is repeated in many spiritual scriptures "we are all special and we are all not special." We are all equal, my friends. So, yeah, I'm a weak, imperfect person." Even wolves get scared!