Your best bet would be to rescind your racist statements, give him a hug, and tell him that as long as he finds a woman that loves and respects him, and who has his back, you will welcome her into your heart and home with open arms.Show your son the love and respect he deserves, not hate. Heart Beat: My fiance’ keeps telling me to stop telling my 22 year old son not to date Black girls, but I just don’t like them for my son. Signed, No Black Girls Dear Crazy Evil Hag: If every single White woman on this planet were totally wonderful, accomplished, educated, intelligent, honest, loving, genuine, non drug addicted, non smoking, non drunk, an excellent mother, religious, slim, shapely, a fantastic cook, great in bed, and perfect in every way imaginable then your concerns would make sense. After all, I’m entitled to my opinion and I feel that as his mother, it’s my right and duty to warn him.Chances are some reverse psychology will going to kick in, and you’re going to be the Grandma to a biracial baby real soon.By pushing against one type of person and going toe to toe with your son about his interests and choices, it may actually encourage him to date Black women and feel a sense of vindication at intentionally ignoring your strict, exclusive standards.
62 years later, Bryant admitted that she’d never actually been whistled at and that she had lied about major parts of the incident.You are basically saying that ALL Black women are guilty (without a fair trial or the least bit of evidence), and setting yourself up to be judge, jury and executioner. A parent is supposed to want the best for his or her child.Our responsibility as parents is to teach our offspring to expect the best for themselves by teaching them how to choose a mate wisely.As a warning, she'd tell us the graphic details of Emmett Till's senseless death, and how he had died because a white woman had made a false allegation against a black boy.Even though we were being raised in the 1990s, decades after Till's death, we all knew that racism was still alive and well in this country.