6) When you meet your girlfriend's friends, you realize that all of them have a rich expat boyfriend, and , and you even feel that she thinks it's normal.She will tell you that you are different, because your love is so special, etc..I remember my ex was very confuse about it: She was telling me about her Dutch guy with whom she had been for 3 years, her American guy she had dated for 2 and a half year, her German guy that she had loved for 4 years, etc.
Clearly, I understand the concept of privacy, but such behaviour is a clear indicator that your Indonesian girl is hiding something. If you believe that, then you can ask her about the previous men she was dating.
“You’re just being paranoid–you’re crazy for thinking like that! These behaviors are only indicators of a cheating spouse and are not absolutes!
If your spouse has one or two of these behaviors, and there is a legitimate reason and a mutual agreement (such as you two talk about it and agree to try to lose weight…and they’ve gone a little obsessive about it), these signs do NOT prove infidelity.
Those “prostitutes” do not look like hookers: They are young, cute, and they seem so nice that it is hard to imagine what is behind their smiles: That doesn’t mean you should stop enjoying your time in Jakarta: If the sex with her is good and you are not emotionally attached, I say don't pay too much attention to it, but then protect yourself and do not fall in love.
However, if you are looking for a serious partner, then do not tolerate a relationship based on mistrust and lies.