For example, if you met her online and her physical appearance is much different than her online profile, she is not being honest about herself, and you are not obligated to spend hours with her.A simple, “It appears we don’t have anything in common, and I don’t want to waste your time, so I’m going to go.It was nice meeting you,” is all that is necessary.If she is important and this particular date won’t get you closer to your destination.
For me, I have been on both sides of the deal breaker and the relationship soured and became even more hurtful following the deal breaker.
I learned from that experience that while every relationship has stuff that comes up, the healthy ones allow us to work together to repair the stuff.
Relationships that are really hard all the time just aren’t meant to be.
Guys call women high-maintenance, and a great many of us are, but we aren't the only ones who take a lot of work.
And frankly, it's easier for us to put up with another woman's needs than a man's, largely because we understand them better.