Please remember not all 'female' sounding names are in fact females, femme'd male submissive also use female names. Take the time to get to know the Domme, chat in the room, greet people, ask questions. 3) Please, please, please IGNORE the idiots who say really rude things in the room.
Upper case does NOT always imply female in this chatroom, just as lower case is NOT always male. Its a major turn off when a guy comes in saying ' I want to serve! they are JUST looking for attention why give them what they want???
Also, don't submit, even in cyber unless you actually mean it. A lot of cyber relationships are just as important as real life to the people involved and they take them just as seriously.
Just sending email and having a hot chat does not make you a sub. If this is just a cyber game to you, be sure your partner feels the same way.
Many men also like to be made cuckold and watch other men with their wives. Humiliation lies at the heart of a lot of BDSM and role-playing.
Once you've dated someone from Domme Mistress.com, it's hard to go back to the normal dating market. Rather than sit in a restaurant with your girlfriend, why not be tied up discussing whether or not she should drip hot wax on to you? Fantasies so wild you're not sure how she will react when you tell her. Many dominatrixes like to inflict public humiliation and sexual humiliation on their slaves.
1) You might want to read a Dommes profile before addressing her in the room most of them specify what they'd like to be called.. t I suggest defaulting to Ms (Screen name) or Ma'am.
Many of us don't like being called Mistress by people not our collared subs.
Think about whether you would like this person if you had to actually be WITH them.
Put these people on Ignore and talk about something else.
4) How to handle a Mistress giving you orders who isn't your Mistress,and you don't wish to follow them.
Drop outs often occur in the chat room through associated connectivity problems and are just a fact of using the internet, they occur to us all. Below are just some ideas and suggestions, you can take or leave them, that's up to you. (Yes, guy subs, I'm talking to YOU) The only people you impress are those who have been on line dominants for less than an hour or the Dommes who got their idea of D/s from internet fantasy fodder.
If you yourself outside the chat room just re log in. Real life Dommes are much more impressed to find out that you have a brain, can hold a polite conversation, and have a few manners.