This could eliminate communication barriers prior to that decision. We have 2 kids and he will not tell them he has a girlfriend and that he lives with her.However, parenting classes should be case by case, not mandatory, but required to some, and have the parents subjective opinions and feelings integrated into this decision making process of the legislative or legal branch. In a case like this you got to let the bastard go... Dionne, my situation almost mirrors yours except my husband had a vasectomy a year after we had our now 5 year old daughter.I found that keeping a journal really helped me get through the process. I was married for 7 years to a broken angel, I tried to fix her and show her what real love and devotion was about when first of all I didn't understand my roles as a husband and a father. I can see where I contributed to the demise of my marriage but I will never take responsibility for my ex's infidelities.Having a good support system in tact is extremely crucial as well. you scumbags will have a world all to your selves .. I also didn't realize that one person cannot fix another; we can only show them love and support, or not, while the other goes through life dealing with their brokenness in healthy ways or destructive ways. they won't be there when your in the depths of hades... He CHOSE to do that and there are consequences for that now.
Prayer and quiet time in the morning help keep you centered when challenges occur. how good honest, deeply caring, passionate, loyal family loving people.. I choose to forgive my ex-wife for leaving me, I hold onto some sort of hope that eventually I will be relatively happy one day. At the end of the day God allowed this to happen to us for a reason either we will be victims or victors. I defaulted on student loans and destroyed my credit.
After a series of sexual flings, I was ready to start thinking about finding someone again.
This time, after being with the same person for over ten years, I have zero interest in rebounding, no interest in 'dating' and my libido is gone to almost nothing.
The children are with me she sees them every other weekend. Maybe there is a difference between the one that is left and the one that left. ..is limited by specific shortcomings or liabilities and benefitted by specific strengths.
I have been with other women including two relationships where one was an engagement. I used to rebound almost immediately after a relationship (longest was about 2 years or so).