(This is true of every man you consider dating, not just this one.) If your friend and this man conducted themselves biblically, however, with all purity (1 Timothy 5:2) even as they tried to determine if they were a good match for one another, and decided in the end that they weren't, there's no reason they should feel tied to one another, or have any sense of ownership or influence over future relationships.If your friend cares for this man and wants what's best for him — and if they had a godly breakup — she should rejoice if the two of you decide to date and possibly marry.
The point of Christian dating is to find a suitable spouse.
That should come as good news to her, even though it may remind her of her own disappointment that she's still waiting for a similarly good match.
(That's another area for prayer and patience, and the ability to trust in God's sovereign plan.) It's no reason to begrudge him, though.
I'm working at a day camp this summer with guess who? Clearly, she does not own him but you do want to be both a sensitive and kind friend.
A Confused Teenage Girl Dear Teen, You are struggling with a dilemma that women,men,teens and adults deal with throughout life.