Among all the invaluable lessons in authors Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider emphasize this point as the most important.
It may go against conventional dating advice, which encourages women to flirt and even strike up a conversation.
" Quick Fix: Know what you want - and believe you deserve it.
Again, remind us: "Men fall in love quickly - but they also fall out of love quickly." Sure, it can be flattering, even exhilharating, when a man you've just met wants to see you several times a week and talk to you for hours on the phone.
But unfortunately the result is a white-hot romance that burns brightly and then fizzles out.
Then there's the lack of faith in the abundance of the universe - the anxious sense of scarcity that propels us to "make things happen," instead of letting them unfold. It's uncanny how the women I coach all tend to commit the same mistakes (five of which I've outlined below).
Moreover, correcting the errors of your ways can be done with a bit of practice.